The Struggles of Moving an Aging Parent to a Nursing Home

Eddie Van Buskirk • Jul 30, 2024

When your parents age gracefully in their own home, a quiet thought lingers: “When will they need to move?” It’s a question we all hope to avoid, but life has a way of making its own plans. The transition to a nursing home or retirement community often happens when we least expect it, placing the burden on you, the Power of Attorney, to make swift, critical decisions. Even if your loved one has a plan in place, the workload remains heavy. Let’s walk through the steps to ease this journey.

Find the Right Place for Them 

Finding the right senior living community can transform this experience. Seek out agencies that offer free guidance to match your loved one with the perfect home. Consider proximity to family for those cherished, familiar visits, the cost of care, and the facility’s ability to adapt to increasing needs. A nearby location boosts mental health through frequent family visits. Financially, it’s essential to choose a place within budget to avoid future strain. Ensure the facility offers comprehensive services like rehab, memory care, or assisted living.

What to Take from Their Current Home 

Imagine distilling a lifetime into a few cherished items. What do they need in their new home? Essentials like the bed, TV, and dresser should make the move. Hiring movers simplifies this process, avoiding the hassle of renting trucks. Heirlooms and photo albums hold sentimental value; now is the time for your loved one to pass these treasures to the next generation.

What to Do with the House 

Once they’re settled, the focus shifts to the house. Family members should select the belongings they want, which can be a delicate task. At Kansas City Legacy Properties, we’ve perfected a fair distribution system, acting as impartial moderators to ease family tensions.

Handling Remaining Items 

If valuable items remain, consider an estate sale or auction, especially with over $10,000 worth of belongings. Big-ticket items like a riding lawn mower or valuable collections draw attention. You’ll be surprised what sells quickly versus what lingers.

Donate or Dispose of the Rest 

Post-sale, donate or dispose of the remaining items. Some donation centers offer pickup services, a time-saving option. For the rest, rent a dumpster or hire a trash removal service. Both have costs, with the former requiring effort and the latter being more expensive.

Deep Cleaning the House 

With the house cleared, it’s time for a deep clean. Over time, dirt and grime accumulate. A spotless house, even if dated, appeals more to buyers. Whether you clean it yourself or hire professionals, this step is essential.

Bonus: Have the Property Inspected 

An inspection uncovers hidden issues, allowing you to address them before listing. This prevents surprises during the buyer’s inspection and adds value to the seller’s disclosure.

Time to Sell the House! 

Finally, it’s time to sell. This crucial step helps fund senior living expenses. Pricing the property correctly is key—overpricing can lead to longer market times and ultimately lower sale prices. A realistic price ensures a quicker, fair sale. Taking this on alone can feel overwhelming. That’s why Kansas City Legacy Properties is here. With five years of experience, we simplify the process and ensure everything goes smoothly. You have enough to worry about—let us handle this part.



Call us today to schedule your appointment: 816-307-7163.

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